AN OPEN-LETTER TO ALL BOYFRIENDS OUT THERE

         

Girls are pretty hard to keep up with. Our extreme emotions and mood changes are the ones that probably annoys you ALL THE TIME. But hey, that is normal (at most times) but do understand that some of us are just sensitive. We hate being ignored. We easily think that we are not worth your attention. We blame ourselves for your tiny tiniest lack of interest for us. We might think we are not good enough for you, or that maybe we did something wrong we didn't even know that made you mad. Some may be silent about it and just let it subside but some may actually confront you for "not having REAL conversations" throughout the day. 

Also, you know how our "that time of the month" goes, right? Mood changes are BLOOMING SERIOUS. Like we get so mad about as simple as not replying a whole long sentence and just an "Okay" or even not letting us have the last slice of pizza. We are so easily irritated and our pet peeve list multiplies to a hundred and fifteen .... and counting. Basically it is the time of the month where we hate the world. 

We also love food, and you boyfriends know that all too well. Ice cream, french fries, burgers, crepes, sushi, milk tea, nuggets, frappucino, chocolates, doughnuts and the list goes on, and on, and on. We even demand for food and not just a side note of "oh babe did you know how I'm craving for a J.co this past few days" but instead "BABE BUY ME A KITKAT GREEN TEA RIGHT NOW PLEASE YOU LOVE ME RIGHT?" hahaha

  ................but................

     We are sorry for all of those. 

Sorry for being annoying. Sorry for being dramatic, demanding and mean. 

We understands how you want your own time

Yes, we hate being ignored but we also understands how you want your own time. We want you to enjoy your hobbies and interests as well. It is more than okay if you tell us that you'll be in a basketball game, or you'll be in the cafe with your friends for a match in your favorite computer game. Believe us, we do, and that is why we apologize for seeking your attention sometimes but keep in mind that we support you in anything that you do. (as long as it is not a bad thing haha)

We understand if you don't want long talks   

     We also know how you guys sometimes hate long conversations and doesn't want to at least listen to our book-long story about a dog who passed by our house. Sometimes you just want to chill and watch your daily dose of whatever it is you like. And it's okay. We dearly appreciate all of your efforts and your time when your ignoring the internet and your friends just to spend it with us and talk to us for hours and hours and we love you for that.

We understand that it is not your obligation to feed us hahaha

     We also know that running at McDonald's just to buy the french fries we've been craving for is sometimes very inconvenient and nowhere near possible. So sorry for being demanding and being mean if you fail to fulfill our food cravings, But we appreciate all of those times when you surprise or bring us with the foods we love, or by even letting us have your popcorn in the cinema and by giving us your share from the whole pizza, and we thank you for that.

  "We all have our bad days. Relationships aren't perfect and will not have to be talking with each other 24/7 nor being sweet and cuddly all the time. On our bad days, we just need to understand each other and be patient. Because I believe that arguments and those little fights in every relationship doesn't make them hate or unlove each other, instead, it reveals those sides of them they don't normally encounter. It is knowing each other even deeper, and accepting and embracing each other's flaws with pure love."  -Ciele Anolin ♔